just thought i would write about this particular issue cause am in the midst of a conversation wif a fren on the very same topic... i guess i should reverse abit and actually explain wat i am talking about hey.... it is the age old question of whether we should let fate lead us to our destiny or should we go out and take on the world (as the saying goes) and make our "own" destiny... i for one am a firm believer in doing things to get the proverbial ball rolling...while the fren is o...